Ray-J wants to teach everyone how to have a successful relationship. So he wrote a book, Death of the Cheating Man: What Every Woman Must Know About Men Who Stray, where he talks about being sexmatized by a certain girl in his past he calls "KK." And he doesn't leave out both of their infidelities, their lies, and why that type of relationship didn't work. Check out his interview inside...
Ray chatted with Kevin Frazier of "The Insider" on why he wrote this book (because he's going through a point of growth in his life and wants to recognize why things happened in his past), his romantic relationship with Whitney Houston (which he tries to not say whether they have a physical intimate relationship), and his addictive relationship with a certain girl he only reveals as "KK."
Now while it's extremely obvious he's talking about his former sex tape partner Kim Kardashian, Ray still tries to say he didn't want the focus to be on the person but the situation--so it could be about "anyone." (Whatevs Ray. We all know damn well who this is.) Peep the vid above, and the transcript of the parts that matter below:
Kevin Frazier: Tell me about the girl in the book. You say she literally hypnotized you with sex.
Ray-J: Absolutely. I was hypnotized. Waking up in the morning with toothpaste already on the toothbrush, a warm towel all ready to go to wash your face. Just certain different perks of being with a woman like that could really trap you into an emotional world that's hard to get out of.
The relationship with KK ended because we just felt like, you know, were friends and honest with each other. But as far as our commitment as a one on one relationship, that just wasn't working.
As far as sex, it was intense. As far as the relationship with KK, it was a roller coaster ride of fun and emotions and infidelity and lies...from both ends. We were the same person, we lived the same life, we lied the same, we cheated the same. We were the same person just in different forms.
At the end of the day, it was a clash.
Kevin Frazier: So she knew you were having sex with other people and you knew you were having sex with other people?
Ray: Exactly. And she knew the same.
And no, he still won't admit who actually really released that sex tape. But sexmatized by toothpaste and a washcloth? Really? Ok.