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Pastor John Gray Accused Of Cheating On His Wife (Again) As He Posts Cryptic Video About Needing ‘Healing’ To Become A Whole Man


Last week, Pastor John Gray hopped on social media to post a cryptic video about how he needed to step back to “heal.” Not long after, cheating allegations started circulating…again. Coincidence? Decide for yourself inside…


Relentless Church Pastor John Gray is being accused of cheating on his wife, Aventer Gray, yet again.

Last week, Pastor John Gray hopped on social media to share with his church congregation and followers what he has been going through, mentally, revealing he was in a bad place. He candidly talked about childhood trauma he suffered, revealing he started getting abused at the age of 4, which caused him to constantly live in a “dark place.”

”I’ve been saying to my wife, I am not okay. I’ve been telling people close to me, I’m not okay. I am not well. In my heart, in my body, in my mind, in my body, in my soul. I am not well. This is when people put guns in their mouth,” he said.

In the video, he talked about how he has been living in bondage and he just wants to be free. He shared a “vicious predator” put urine in his mouth when he was a young boy and that has caused him shame.

In the end, he said he’s stepping back to “heal” so he can become a whole man.

Check it:


Singer Tyrese posted in John’s comments to show support:


Not long after, NEW cheating allegations popped up! Maybe he knew this was coming and tried to hit ahead of the narrative?

A woman spoke to YouTuber Tasha K to share with her that she has been having an affair with Pastor John Gray - who pastored for several years at Joel Osteen's Lakewood Church in Houston - and that there’s video proof! Allegedly. The woman shared she's an adult entertainer and that she lives in Florida. Peep the clip above.

In another clip, Tasha K talks about seeing “disturbing videos” that the adult entertainer sent her of John and said that he was “building a mistress.”

Tasha K said the woman told her he would send her money on Cash App, he said he was going to move her to Atlanta, buy her a house and a car. She said every time she got on the phone with John, all he wanted to do was masturbate and after he released, he would forget everything he said to her.

The unidentified woman said she had been talking to John Gray for over a month and didn’t realize who he is. Hmm…

The full interview is on Tasha K’s website.

If this saga sounds familiar, it’s because it is. It’s almost textbook how his last few cheating scandals have gone. He always blames himself for being so “broken” that he can’t stop cheating on his wife, who is also the mother of his two children. 

After he got cheating in 2020 (which wasn’t the first time), he apologized to his wife and said he was undergoing extensive therapy for a while, both with his wife and individually. He said he’s not sure how long his therapy process will take and told his congregation they may not see him for a few weeks. With that, he said was working on becoming a better man.

While he apologized for publicly humiliating his wife and the pain he caused her, he was adamant that he never actually had sexually intercourse with another woman.

Last year, Pastor Gray talked to ALLBLK’s “Social Society’s” host Kendall Kyndall about the internal work he has done to gain “trust equity” with his wife, following the cheating allegations.

“Building trust with a congregation is secondary to building trust equity with my wife,” he said. “When you attempt to throw away your marriage because of your own pain, your own shame, your own sexual repression, things that happened in childhood—you’ve gotta dig deeper than ‘I’m sorry.’ I’m sorry can be genuine but if you don’t do the internal work, you’re gonna come back and do it again.”


“There were all these things swirling–‘ he’s slept with this and that’— the only woman I’ve been inside of is my wife,” said Pastor Gray. “Let’s get that straight.”

Peep the clip above.

Do you believe it?

Photo: IG Live Screenshot 

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